|The International Square Dance Magazine|
It’s all about fun! It’s really been all about fun for many, many years. We get exercise, experience some of the best social interaction possible, and the joy to moving to music all at the same time. When we really get down to the “nitty gritty”, it’s all about the fun of this “team dancing” activity.
We don’t need to master any fancy footwork or execute dance maneuvers that require special head, shoulder, or arm positions. As long as we move forward (somewhat in step with the music) and we don’t interfere with others – it works! We dance as a team of eight, and with just a little cooperation and some friendly interaction in a sporting-like mind-set, we succeed and have a ton of fun.
Now it seems that part of the human condition is at times, adversarial. Sometimes we have a tendency to complain, to look more often at what’s not right with things, instead of counting our blessings and enjoying what’s right and positive. Sometimes the politics of our clubs, associations, and organizations have actually caused our participants to quit dancing entirely. The responsibilities of being a caller, cuer, or dance leader have often been so overwhelming and stressful, that one’s life becomes too busy and frantic. We’ve seen some of our dancers and leaders decrease their involvement (or drop out of the activity entirely) just to maintain some balance and sanity in their lives. In this way, our activity faces the same challenges that every other organized group in society deals with. Approaching our participation with the right kind of balance and attitude can enhance the fun that occurs naturally with our unique dance.
There are big differences in size, anatomy, and “dance fit” of all our dancers. This could be annoying to some, but most of us have really learned to enjoy and have fun with these differences. Some of us just fit together better when we swing, do arm turns, promenade and dance the calls, but the enjoyment of being considerate and succeeding as a member of the “team” just adds to the fun we have.
How many times have you looked around a hall of dancers and noticed the diversity of the people attending the event? There are people of all walks of life, people of many different vocations, and so many different cultures and personalities. Many of us wouldn’t have much in common if it wasn’t for our dance, and most of us wouldn’t be interacting with each other if it weren’t for square dancing. Our dance gives us a big opportunity to have a great time with a very diverse group of people. I imagine that this one thing has caused some new dancers to drop out (by feeling intimidated or uncomfortable); yet with the right attitude, it can be another unique characteristic of our dance that just adds to the fun.
In every club, at every dance, and at every festival or jamboree, there are dancers of differing abilities. There are new dancers, dancers that are very experienced, and dancers, that due to age and physical changes, have varying abilities to dance successfully. Sometimes dancers in our square have danced to a caller many times and some have never danced to that same caller. Some dancers can be nervous and others confident and poised. Some would look at this diversity as challenging or unpleasant, but the majority of us have learned otherwise.
Most of us realize that
we are a team, and the success of all of us
makes all of us succeed. We’ve learned that
helping each other can not only be gratifying,
but can be a major part of the fun. We also know
that sometimes, we too “draw a blank” and need a
little guidance. This can be one of the biggest
joys of our dance when it all comes together and
our square succeeds because, or in spite of us.
Again, with the right attitude, it’s fun!
Let’s rise to the occasion and look to the future. We may have to help our activity evolve faster than it has over the years, because we all know the world and our daily lives are changing at an incredible pace. Each generation is very different from the one before it, and what was popular with one generation is quickly old-fashioned with the next.
We might even have to change the name, the costume, the programs, the halls we dance in, and the amount we charge for each event to more successfully move forward. We are currently updating the way we market our dance and communicate with each other through the use of social media, but one thing is for sure, it’s worth the effort to preserve an activity that has so many social and health benefits for so many different age groups; and most of all, because it’s so much fun!
|Fun set to music!|